{"id":804,"date":"2026-03-15T07:31:11","date_gmt":"2026-03-15T05:31:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/debruyn-walters.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/15\/from-love-to-friendship-2\/"},"modified":"2026-03-15T07:31:11","modified_gmt":"2026-03-15T05:31:11","slug":"from-love-to-friendship-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debruyn-walters.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/15\/from-love-to-friendship-2\/","title":{"rendered":"From Love to Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>By Voltaire <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you would have me love once more,<br>The blissful age of love restore;<br>From wine&#8217;s free joys, and lovers&#8217; cares,<br>Relentless time, who no man spares,<br>Urges me quickly to retire,<br>And no more to such bliss aspire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>From such austerity exact,<br>Let&#8217;s, if we can, some good extract;<br>Whose way of thinking with this age<br>Suits not, can ne&#8217;er be deemed a sage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Let sprightly youth its follies gay,<br>Its follies amiable display;<br>Life to two moments is confined,<br>Let one to wisdom be consigned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>You sweet delusions of my mind,<br>Still to my ruling passion kind,<br>Which always brought a sure relief<br>To life&#8217;s accurst companion, grief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Will you forever from me fly,<br>And must I joyless, friendless die?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>No mortal e&#8217;er resigns his breath<br>I see, without a double death;<br>Who loves, and is beloved no more,<br>His hapless fate may well deplore;<br>Life&#8217;s loss may easily be borne,<br>Of love bereft man is forlorn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>&#8216;Twas thus those pleasures I lamented,<br>Which I so oft in youth repented;<br>My soul replete with soft desire,<br>Vainly regretted youthful fire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>But friendship then, celestial maid,<br>From heaven descended to my aid;<br>Less lively than the amorous flame,<br>Although her tenderness the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>The charms of friendship I admired,<br>My soul was with new beauty fired;<br>I then made one in friendship&#8217;s train,<br>But destitute of love, complain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Voltaire If you would have me love once more,The blissful age of love restore;From wine&#8217;s free joys, and lovers&#8217; cares,Relentless time, who no man spares,Urges me quickly to retire,And no more to such bliss aspire. 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