Buddhism has given me 17 years of peace, and today at Nan Hua Temple, I celebrated that gift with my family.
“In the stillness of meditation, I found joy in the love of my family.”
This year marked our third visit to the Chinese New Year celebrations at Nan Hua Buddhist Temple in Bronkhorstspruit, and for the first time, the weather was gentle. Instead of the usual blazing heat, we were blessed with cool air and even a light drizzle towards the end—a perfect day for reflection and joy.
Family, Faith, and Gratitude
My husband and daughter joined me in making this day truly special. As a Buddhist, the temple is a place of peace and renewal for me, and they lovingly made the celebration all about my spiritual journey. For the first time, we participated in the 30-minute meditation session I had long hoped to attend. Sitting together in silence, breathing deeply, and letting go of distractions was spectacular. When the session ended, our daughter turned to me with a smile and said her legs felt like jelly—a moment of humor that made the experience even more memorable.
Chant: Om Mani Padme Hum (The jewel is in the lotus)
Before meditation, I received my free copy of the 365 Days of Travelers book, something I had been eagerly waiting for. Holding it in my hands felt like a small but meaningful gift to begin the year.
Chant: Gate Gate Paragate Parasamgate Bodhi Svaha (Gone, gone, gone beyond, gone altogether beyond, enlightenment, hail!)
A Daughter’s Prayer
One of the most touching moments was when my daughter joined me in prayer at two of the temple halls. I asked if she wished to share her prayers, and she told me she prayed for Sammie, our beloved 14-year-old Maltese Poodle, that his eyesight would not worsen. She also thanked Buddha for the fortunate life she has with us and prayed for her grandmother, who is bravely battling brain cancer. Her sincerity moved me deeply—it was a reminder of how compassion and gratitude can blossom in the hearts of the young.
Chant: Namo Tassa Bhagavato Arahato Samma Sambuddhassa (Homage to the Blessed One, the Worthy One, the Fully Enlightened One)
Respecting Beliefs, Sharing Love
My husband, a Methodist, did not pray but stood patiently with us in the queues, supporting me with quiet strength. Our marriage thrives on mutual respect for each other’s beliefs, and I am endlessly grateful that Buddha brought such a loving partner into my life. His thoughtful humor shone through when he surprised me with a giant goose teddy before we left—“Gary the Goose,” as he named it. Knowing my dream of one day keeping geese on a smallholding, he gave me this playful gift as a symbol of our shared future. I was so happy I fell asleep in the car, cuddling Gary, while he laughed at my joy.
Chant: Sabbe Satta Sukhi Hontu (May all beings be happy)
Closing Reflection
Chinese New Year at Nan Hua Temple is more than a cultural celebration—it is a spiritual renewal, a family memory, and a reminder of the love that surrounds me. For 17 years, Buddhism has brought me peace, joy, and truth. Each morning, I light a candle and pray, thanking Buddha for my family, for our safety, and for the blessings we enjoy. This year’s celebration reaffirmed that gratitude, and I carry it forward into the Year of the Fire Horse with hope, compassion, and love.
Chant: Namo Buddhaya (Homage to the Buddha)
Closing Prayer
May the light of the Dharma guide us through each day.
May compassion blossom in our hearts, bringing peace to all beings.
May our families be blessed with love, health, and harmony.
May those who suffer find comfort, and those who are lost find truth.
In the Year of the Fire Horse, may we walk with courage, kindness, and joy.
Chant: Om Mani Padme Hum
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